Orgasm…

Whatever you say, but before men lived much easier. Of course, there were enough difficulties in their life. Take at least those inhuman forces that had to be spent on one single woman in order to get completely elementary things from her.
Or, say, the obligation of a decent man in a combination of known circumstances will certainly marry. Here, of course, you will not envy our ancestors. However, from the perspective of a modern man - all these are real trifles. Compared to such a phenomenon as female orgasm.
Of course, women are to blame for everything. They always are grunting to find the problem where it cannot be by definition (about the male orgasm and, in fact, nothing is simple-everything is simple as a rake!) And it would be okay to find it!
No, the ladies manage to turn the matter so that the men are also to blame. Like, if not for men, then there would have been no problem. And if so, then they still seem to them. No, most likely, the woman’s orgasm experienced before.
It would not be fair to take all the blame on women. In some ways, here, of course, nature tried. Only in the old days both the female orgasm itself, and its complete absence was just a personal affair of the woman herself. Well, perhaps men, too, but only exclusively on a voluntary basis. And most often they did not even know about him.
Now-here it was not without the influence of feminism-the physiological phenomenon of the female orgasm in some completely incomprehensible way has become the measure of male fullness. Because, in accordance with modern concepts of honor and dignity, any decent man, under a combination of known circumstances, is simply obliged to offer his lady ... her own orgasm. And that's how it is simply obliged. Otherwise, he seems to be no longer a man.
So only women know how to turn everything upside down.
Can every woman experience an orgasm?
From the point of view of physiology - yes. Theoretically, there is no, since even in textbooks in sexology 95% the indicator is the maximum bar, which every man should strive for. As for the practical state of things, for obvious reasons, no one can name the exact number here, but according to different studies, an orgasm is able to experience from 40 to 70% of women.
Is an orgasm in women an obligatory element of sex?
There are scientists who seriously believe that, unlike the male, female orgasm is not so much physiological as a social one. Since, from the point of view of evolution, in women this phase of sexual relations does not bear any practical value (in men, the desire to achieve orgasm is a mighty driving force that can fight even such a powerful factor as natural laziness!), And therefore, and not It is mandatory.
It is not known how true the first part of this statement is, but women really feel satisfaction from sexual intercourse without achieving orgasm. And this is considered a completely normal phenomenon, although it does not mean at all that women do not need an orgasm at all. It all depends on the internal sensations of the woman herself.
What does a woman feel during orgasm?
It is believed that women during orgasm experience more vivid and diverse sensations than men. So, for example, during one large -scale sociological study by American doctors, more than 600 “experiences” that were described by their orgasm were obtained.
Someone feels increasing heat in the genitals, which then spills throughout the body. Someone defines an orgasm as involuntary contractions of the vaginal muscles (it always happens, but not everyone feels it). And someone like a wave of convulsive contractions that runs throughout the body from the crown to the heels. In general, the sensations are very diverse. Moreover, in the same woman they can change both over time and depending on the conditions.
How to determine if a woman has an orgasm?
Orgasm is a qualitatively new condition that differs from ordinary strong excitement. Therefore, it is easiest to catch the onset of orgasm precisely by changing the behavior of a particular woman, and not by catching her generally accepted symptoms.
The indirect signs of the onset of orgasm are: rapid breathing (or, conversely, its short -term delay), convulsive movements (or, conversely, freezing), compression of the muscles of the vagina (which is quite easy to determine by introducing a finger there), a variety of sound accompaniment (or, conversely, The convulsive compression of the jaws and the bite of different foreign objects) and others. Sometimes the manifestations of orgasm are so weak that it is almost impossible to determine them by eye.
Is it true that women can simulate an orgasm?

Yes! In any case, the features of female physiology allow them to do this without much difficulty. As for specific facts, according to sociological research, 80% of women at least once in their lives, but an orgasm was simulated.
At the same time, there are women who have never experienced orgasm at all and only do all their lives

that they play a strange role in bed. And there are such (fortunately, the majority) who resort to simulation only in certain situations, when for some reason the false finale seems more convenient for them.
Why do they do this?
According to sexologists, the basis of female pretense is not an innate addiction to lies, as some men think, but just a false idea of the female orgasm of the man himself. As well as the existing in modern society a kind of fashion for a female orgasm. With this little deceit, a woman, as it were, defends herself from the obligations that society laid on her, first of all, the men themselves.

Is it possible to distinguish a true orgasm from imaginary?
Based on the same features of female physiology, it is possible to distinguish a true orgasm from false with the help of quite bulky and expensive equipment. As for ordinary conditions, there is not a single reliable sign, the absence of which or, conversely, the presence would allow a man to determine the truth of the female orgasm absolutely accurately.
Yes, there are a number of manifestations that accompany orgasm that a woman is not able to fake. For example, wrinkled skin around the nipples, redness of the upper chest, compression of the vaginal muscles. But even their absence cannot be convincing evidence of your partner's true feelings.
Does the duration of sexual intercourse affect the strength of orgasm?
Yes. Sexologists distinguish such a pattern - the longer the “plateau” phase lasts (sexual intercourse is divided into four phases - excitement, “plateau”, orgasm, refraction), the brighter the orgasm.
Does excitation affect the strength of orgasm?
Yes. The brighter than the experience of a woman in the first phase, the more strong feelings she will experience during orgasm.
How long does the female orgasm last?
On average, as much as men: 4-6 seconds. However, options are possible. In addition to the usual (pico -shaped), an orgasm can be protracted (from several tens of seconds to several minutes) and wave -like (for a long time).
How long does women have a refractory period?
Excitation in women decreases more slowly than in men, and can even resume again with repeated caresses. However, if there is no stimulation, then it still comes to naught. After that, the period of sexual impregnability occurs (during this period there is no sexual desire, and the reaction to sexual stimulation is reduced or even sharply negative), which can last from several minutes to several days.
It depends on the sexual constitution of the woman, the regularity of sexual activity, her physical condition and some other factors. However, on average, the refractory period in women is shorter than in men.

Does a woman control herself during orgasm?
Women, as a rule, experience an orgasm more violently than men. They can cry, scream, swear, bite and even lose consciousness. And all this is absolutely normal. Electrophysiological studies (EEG) of the brain of women during orgasm revealed changes in them, similar to the fact that they are observed with an epileptic seizure. Therefore, many women are really not able to control their behavior during orgasm.
Moreover, restraining her emotions, a woman is not able to get a full orgasm. And constant restraint can lead to the development of various neurosis and false frigidity.
Is it possible to stop the beginning orgasm?
Sexologists distinguish two periods in the third phase: the first is the approach of orgasm, the second is directly orgasm. At the same time, in the first period, if necessary, the process is still possible ”to turn back,“ in the second - no.
How does the multiple orgasm differ from repeated?
Unlike men, women can experience a multiple orgasm. It differs from the repeated one in that between the first and subsequent orgasm, the woman is always in the second phase of the “plateau” without leaving her.
With repeated orgasm, even if it occurs after a short period of time, it all starts again - first excitement, then a short “plateau” and only then an orgasm.
Are all women able to experience multiple orgasm?
No. The tendency to multiple orgasm is congenital and is found in about 30 % of women.
What orgasm is real?
Not only men, but many women believe that only vaginal orgasm is only vaginal, and everything else is only surrogate. This is not true. From the point of view of physiology, any orgasm is real if it leads to the corresponding discharge.
How long does a woman need to achieve orgasm?
This indicator is very individual, but on average 15-30 minutes. That is, a woman needs several times more time to achieve an orgasm than a man. If you look at men's and female graphs of sexual arousal during intercourse, then their difference is immediately striking.
The man first has a short first phase (excitement), then a slightly longer phase “plateau”, orgasm (4-10 seconds) and a short refractory period (4-10 minutes).
In women, the schedule is more stretched in About the time than in men: the first phase - more gentle and long, the second - longer, the third (directly orgasm) - may include several peaks of the curve, the fourth - also longer.
Is the simultaneous orgasm possible in both partners?
Yes. This happens if the man, first reaching the top, does not seek to advance further, but helps his partner catch up with him. And he does it as much time as it takes. At the same time, the man himself, using various techniques, keeps himself at the “plateau” level all the time.